Hello,
Thank you for your query at DoctorSpring.com
Yes, women after menopause, have difficulties enjoying sexual intercourse, or getting an orgasm.
There are a lot of factors causing that such as vaginal atrophy, less sensitivity at the clitoris, dryness, e.t.c
Do you orgasm when you have sex? As in, do you still have an active sexual life?
Fingering and other toys may not work at this age. So sex remains the best option. Sometimes to change things a bit ' porn ' does help in achieving an orgasm.You can try clitoral stimulation and watch porn simultaneously. That should give you the orgasm you have been craving for. Psychology plays an important part, and thinking about the things you like, foreplay, e.t.c is very important in getting a good orgasm.
Feel free to discuss further,
Dr. Jay