Hello. I am a 45 year old woman who has type1 diabetes. I had unprotected vaginal sex with a man about 52 days ago. He didn't ejaculate in me. Since then I have had high anxiety about my status. The man told me he was okay, but I am dubious. I have had some minor symptoms that correlate with both genital herpes and HIV, but I don't know if I am just being hypersensitive. They are as follows:

Possible genital herpes symptoms: sporadic tingling sensations in my groin area, a breakout of one sole tiny blister (the size of the head of a pin) that had a whitehead but no clusters or pain on my upper inner thigh about 15 days after exposure which disappeared the next day, a number of about 8 pimples in that same area on the upper inner thigh that were not clustered together but scattered and had no fluid or pus visible after 44 days of initial exposure and about 30 days after the blister incident, of which disappeared the next day. That same area has since had a mild itchy rash about 2-3 days after the pimple incident, but has cleared up now ( I am inserting pictures of this breakout and rash), some sporadic dull groin pain on one side where lymph nodes are located, but no swelling, some sporadic pain in both armpits not accompanied with swelling either, and I've also had a couple of minor headaches between the initial exposure and now. Sporadic shooting leg and foot pain as well.

Possible HIV symptoms: all of the above plus what seems to be the beginnings of a scratchy, sore-ish throat starting today which is day 52 (about 7 weeks and 3 days after exposure), lost 8 lbs since exposure.

So far after 52 days, no swollen lymph nodes, no rashes, no open, weeping sores, no muscle aches, no fever, no night sweats

I know that is a lot of information to absorb, but I want to be as comprehensive and detailed as possible so that you may give me your most accurate assessment.

Thank you