Thanks for your question. It is unfortunate to say that from the symptoms you have mentioned, you are likely to be affected with genital herpes. Herpes is caused by Herpes Simplex Virus, which are mainly of two types- type 1 and type 2. Of these, type 2 causes genital herpes, as affected to you. But there is a chance for type 1 infection, if you have got only oral sex from your partner. Type 1 HSV transmits orally through oral sex. It affects mucus membranes in mouth and such delicate parts. It is more likely that you got affected from your second partner through oral sex. If so, you can check for visible outbreak of HSV infection in his mouth or lips. But this is not necessary to be seen as HSV can stay dormant in human body before a visible outbreak. Anyway, herpes treatment is done symptomatically and there is no complete cure for herpes, being a viral disease. Herpes Simplex Virus, once affected will stay in human body for a lifetime. Now, I recommend you to see your doctor to get checked for any other sexually transmitted infections and for available treatment options for HSV. Hope it helps. Take care.