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Firstly, please do not be embarrassed. Hemorrhoids is very common, and it is important the diagnosis is confirmed as soon as possible.
Mostly a high dietary fiber diet, ensuring soft passage of stools, avoiding straining during stools, and sitz bath are methods for temporary relief, but if it is an external hemorrhoid, it may have to be removed surgically.
Hence, I will advise you, get it examined by a physician and based on the grading we can decide the course of treatment.
Hope this was helpful,
Regards.