I am at my wit’s end as I suspect myself to be caught with genital herpes or cold sores. All that happened were like this. Recently, about a month ago, I had sex with a guy. To my foolishness, it was an unprotected one. Later, I had sex with another guy and I stayed with him for a month or so. I am not pretty sure, whether he had cold sores as I found something like cold sores on his lip. He used to give me oral sex and at times we engaged in penetrative sex too. After a month, I started getting my periods and it was fairly good as usual. But when it is over, I started getting pain and cold sore like bumps and pops in my genital area which were painful too. I was not even able to move freely due to pain. I strongly believe that this is due to genital herpes. Now I am really afraid of my situation. Is there a chance that I may give herpes to the guy I am staying with now? Or, is it so, that I have got affected from him? How to cure this and cold sore at home? Please help me at the earliest.