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Hello:
Would like some advice on how to masturbate and produce an orgasm. I am 57 years old, been through menapause. Never before in my entire life have been interested in anything dealing with self induced sex until about 8 month to a year previous.
All of a sudden I am really craving to have an orgasm. Is it still possible? Or am I "TOO FAR OVER THE HILL" for this?
I have tried fingering, sex toys, and electrical shock clips. Nothing has come of it.
Is there some online details you could give to me, are there any self teaching videos out there tohelp me? Would like some advice please. Really would like to orgasm if be?
Diane
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Family Physician-GP
Hello,
Thank you for your query at DoctorSpring.com
Yes, women after menopause, have difficulties enjoying sexual intercourse, or getting an orgasm.
There are a lot of factors causing that such as vaginal atrophy, less sensitivity at the clitoris, dryness, e.t.c
Do you orgasm when you have sex? As in, do you still have an active sexual life?
Fingering and other toys may not work at this age. So sex remains the best option. Sometimes to change things a bit ' porn ' does help in achieving an orgasm.You can try clitoral stimulation and watch porn simultaneously. That should give you the orgasm you have been craving for. Psychology plays an important part, and thinking about the things you like, foreplay, e.t.c is very important in getting a good orgasm.
Feel free to discuss further,
Dr. Jay