Hello and thankyou for approaching DoctorSpring with your query.
I understand your concern. In olden days , people would use the presence or absence of the hymen (a memebrane that partially covers the vaginal opening) as an indicator for virginity.
However this is NOT an indicator as the hymen can be absent in some girls, it tears in majority of the girls before the wedding night as a result of physical activity or sports.
Only about 40% women are reported to have bleeding on their first sexual intercourse as a result of an intact hymen. 60% women have not had bleeding, on their first sexual intercourse as their hymen was either already torn as a result of sports or physical activity or as a result of absence of hymen.
Sorry to say, but there is no way to prove that you were a virgin 8 years ago. You can only do so by building your husbands trust in you.
Patient replied :
He is not ready to believe me... i have given my 500%.... but still failed.. now he has plans to marry another girl.. who fallen in love with him long before.... wht to do now.. pls suggest
Hello,
In that case it is highly likely that he is using the 'proof of virginity' as an excuse to move on with a new relationship. You can both try for a counselling as a couple and try to sort out any problems you are having.
Thank you