Hello,

Your sex is shown as female but as per the purview of the question this seems to be a mistake. If that is not the case please let me know.

Thanks for your query at DoctorSpring.

I have gone through your query in detail and I can understand what you are going through. Masturbation is a safe way of expressing ones own sexual intent and doesn't cause any problem.

What you are suffering is called premature ejaculation. Your diabetes could be responsible for your problem. There a couple of medications available which improve your ejaculation time. Paroxetine is a good drug with no significant side effect. It is available in the strengths 12.5 and 25mg. It prolongs the sexual duration.

Also you should try to spend significant period of time in the foreplay. Also try an exercise in which you have contract your anus muscles and that will lead to some sensation around your penis. This has to be done 10 times a day and will improve control over your ejaculation.

Hope I am able to solve your query. Wish you good health.

Regards
Dr. Srikanth Reddy

Hello,
Thanks for your follow-up query.
I understand that there may be some technical problem as your medical history is showing to have had hypertension and diabetes.

Anyways, there are many different reasons for premature ejaculation. Most common of them are psychological, anxiety being on the fore. For the initial part, you can have a course of paroxetine 12.5mg at night for a few weeks. You may meet your treating doctor/psychiatrist/sexologist to get a prescription for the same. The other sex pills available in the market are mostly meant for erectile dysfunction and wont help you with pre-mature ejaculation.
To identify the exact cause we need to evaluate in detail and also get a blood sugar levels done.
Hope I am able to help you with your query.
Do follow the exercise and forplay plan that we had suggested.
Wish you good health.
Dr. Srikanth Reddy MD