Thank you for your questions. Firstly, I will provide you an answer to your first question. In most of the cases it is seen that the female partner is highly disturbed because his boyfriend ejaculated sooner that she thought. She missed the pleasure which she wanted to experience during the intercourse. It is very common in sexual partners. The reason behind this is due to any factors both psychologically and physically. However the most common factor is anxiousness and stress. Same is the case and the reason with detailed ejaculation or in simple words when one does not comes which is your boyfriend’s problem also. As a solution to your problem ii would suggest you to talk to your boyfriend in private. If that does not help then you can contact a local clinic where you will find a counselor who would certainly help. There is nothing to worry. Your boyfriend needs to control his emotions and anxiety. He should build confidence in himself and then proceed with the intercourse. Now coming to your second question involving genital herpes, you said you have seen some genital herpes pictures. From that only you must have a got an idea about this disease. However, genital herpes is an infectious disease which is usually passed from one partner to another during sexual intercourse with one another. This disease as seen in most of the genital herpes pictures is very dangerous. People who suffer from this disease develop ulcers on their genitals parts. There is no cure available for this disease. However, one can have certain medication in order to reduce its effects and symptoms. Take care.